Our First Trip to Ethiopia

Day 1

We have arrived in Ethiopia!!! We got here last night at midnight after three hours at the airport. Immigration…getting our visa, took so long. Luckily we met a couple who is here for their 2nd trip and they helped us through the in-and-outs of immigration, exchanging money and a bit about what to expect on this trip.

It is 8:45am, January 11. Today we meet J Luke! In about 45 minutes! I can’t tell you how excited we are. We only get to spend 3 hours at Hannah’s Hope today. At 12:30 we come back to the hotel and are here for the rest of the day.

There is also a mission trip going on through AGCI. They are building a new library, basketball court, volleyball court, soccer fields and bathrooms for a local school. We met the team this morning at breakfast and asked if we could help since we would be at the hotel for the rest of today and they said they would love the help so after we meet our little guy, we will be off working with the mission team!

We haven’t seen much of Ethiopia, this will happen later in the week. The people are so nice, so genuine.

Jeff met a couple who leaves today to take their baby to his forever home. I’m so excited for that day!

Day 2

Day 2 in Ethiopia was amazing! First we went to Hannah’s Hope and met JLuke. He is full of smiles. He is such a sweet baby. I don’t know what it is like to have a baby…attaching for 9 months while pregnant, but the love that I have for this little guy is unexplainable. I got to feed him and then he napped in our arms.

We toured Hannah’s Hope, hung out with the kids and special mothers, ate lunch there, and then back to the hotel. We quickly changed and were off to help the mission team. We helped to level rock and lay concrete for the basketball court. You can’t see it in the pictures, but the tools that we were using were trowels and floats made of wood, 1X4’s and sticks. The Ethiopian people worked right alongside of us. It was a really cool experience. Jeff made a good friend named Tjermo. He was his concrete guy. If he needed more concrete, Tjermo would get it and say, Tjermo concrete and then give knuckles (if you look hard, you can see this in the background of the picture that shows the basketball court).

We were working in a school play ground so when the kids had breaks, they would come out to watch. They love to get their pictures taken and then look at the screen to see their picture. They also loved to dance. They know all the “American” dances, like the running man, roger rabbit, moon walk….we had a dance off. It was so fun. They tried to teach me some African dances…they laughed so hard as I tried my best to dance with them.

The connection here is really bad, sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn’t. As I type, Jeff has been trying to get on for about an hour. So we will try to send daily updates as long as we can get access.

I wish that I could post pictures of J Luke but at this time, I still can't! 

Day 3

We spent most of the morning with JLuke. What a sweet boy he is. We hung out with the special mothers and babies as they sun bathed. It gives them the Vitamin D they need and they also lotion and oil them up during this time. The special mothers sing, hug and love on them during this time and really….this never stops. They are constantly giving them love.

We fed JLuke, changed diapers, changed outfits because he had a blow out, put him asleep…just did what parents do. As he slept in my arms, we would walk around to the other side of Hannah’s Hope and hang out with the older kids…ranging in age from 2 to 5. They love to be held, sit on your lap, play soccer…even though they get so much love from the special mothers and the staff at AGCI; they still just want a mom and dad.

One thing that we have found with JLuke being at Hannah’s Hope with so many kids is that he sleeps through anything. At first when he would fall asleep, I would try to be quiet but I soon found out that there was no need for this. The older kids would come around the corner playing and laughing, the babies would cry, the special mothers would sing…Hannah’s Hope is so full of life, laughter and love…it is not a quiet place which made it nice because as he napped in our arms, we could still be in the middle of it all, taking it all in.

The afternoon was spent at the hotel for lunch and rest and then dinner with the mission team. Our trip is a bit different than most. Usually there are other adoptive families here but this week, we are the only ones. With the mission team being here, the schedule is different for us because they are trying to coordinate so many things. We haven’t minded a bit because we have been able to be a part of some of the things that team is doing. Being able to spend time with the mission team has made us realize how much we look forward to being a part of mission work…just another thing that God has orchestrated.

Dinner was at an Italian Restaurant….with the best focaccia bread we have ever had! It was a fun time. Dan Wilson….retired mariner’s catcher…is the mission team leader, they have also adopted 2 children from AGCI, so it has been really cool to talk with them about their experiences. The executive director of AGCI was also here, and hearing her story about how AGCI came about is awesome…her parents started AGCI.
We also got to hang out with Almaz, the director of Hannah's Hope in Ethiopia.  She has so much love for the children of Ethiopia and this shows in EVERYTHING at Hannah's Hope

Day 4

Court day!!! We went to Court with Hefla the AGCI family coordinator. Court was an experience. We met in a room with other adoptive families from other agencies and mothers who were relinquishing their rights…talk about emotional. We were at court for about 3 hours. The waiting took the longest part. The actual appearance before the judge was all of 5 minutes. Jeff, I and Hefla were called into a room, with the judge and asked if we had met our baby, understood the importance of teaching about their culture and interlacing that into his life as he grows up and asked if for sure we wanted to go through with this because if we decided against it after today, he would never be able to be adopted. We said yes to everything. So now the case goes to MOWA and then to Kenya….yes Kenya??? The newest change in this process is that now they are sending all abandoned children’s cases to Kenya for further investigation…why this is happening…no one knows. This could make our wait a bit longer so our prayer is that our case with go through with speed!!!

After court we went to the market and purchased some Ethiopian items, all hand made from Ethiopia. We also got an Amharic bible and lots of Ethiopian Coffee!!! We got some awesome pictures and toys for JLuke’s room and some Ethiopian gifts for our family…so that they too can have a little piece of Ethiopia.

We got to go back to Hannah’s Hope in the afternoon and hung with our little man. What a day today was….play time, feeding, rocking, sleeping, more feeding. Jeff got his first experience with throw up. He was rocking JLuke and JLuke started coughing, Jeff leaned down to make sure he was okay, and the next thing I saw was throw up down Jeff’s leg and about 4 oz on the floor. Jeff’s face was priceless. It was a great experience for him.

I know so many have been praying for JLuke’s health and he is doing awesome. He is a bit congested still but even from the first day we held him, he is sounding better. He is not on any medication, he is growing and he is a strong little guy. He can hold his head up even though he is still so tiny. He is in newborn to 3 month clothes…every brand fit a bit different. He did swim in most of the three month so you can imagine what he looked like in 6 month. I don’t think they have very many 0-3 mo sizes and right now there are 4 or 5 small babies. He is a happy little guy, full of smiles….and we gave him so many hugs…for all of you too.

This evening was our traditional meal. Wass took us, ordered a traditional meal…injera, which is a pancake like bread with traditional spices blended with beans, soy and veggies. It was good. We also experienced cultural dancing and singing. Wass explained to us the different songs and dances and what nations they represent…there are like 40 different nations (tribes). This was an awesome experience…we have tons of video!

Day 5

Today was a hard day…sad but also joyous. We went to Hannah’s Hope this morning to spend the morning with our little guy. We fed, played, rocked, walked around with him in the ergo (baby carrier) and enjoyed our time with him. Today was my day to get spit up (I think he had a bit of a tummy ache) and pee’d on. I changed his diaper and obviously wasn’t fast enough with the new diaper…there was pee everywhere, running down my arm, soaked the changing table, on the table next to us, in the wipes. One of the special mothers ran over and said “Gobez, Gobez….meaning brilliant – wonderful and then proceeded to help me clean up JLuke, myself and the area around us. As our time was coming to an end, we gave one of the special moms his family photo album and gave hugs to all of his special moms. This was really hard. We gave him hugs and kisses, took a few more pictures and then had to leave. I didn’t do so hot, but I was able to hold most of it in until we went out the gate. Our case manager said that we needed to control our emotions when saying good bye. It is hard on the special mothers and kids to see the new mom and dad’s cry. Jeff was my rock…telling me, you are doing good. I wasn’t doing so good though!

After leaving HH, we went to the mission site. This was the teams last day. We helped with clean up and odds and ends. The basketball court was finished and the hoops went up. Jeff played bumped with the guys and helped to teach the Ethiopians how to play. They loved it and loved getting high fives. Their shooting technique is a bit different and it was so fun to watch. When all was finished, the mission team gave away their boots and some clothes to those that helped them…the Ethiopians came to work in concrete and use pick axes with bare feet or sandals. They had holey jeans and T-shirts that they wore in layers so that one layer of holes would cover the next.

We are now at the hotel, hanging out, getting ready to pack up and head out. We have about 6 hours of down time. We are on the same flight out as some of the team so that will be fun. We have made new friends and have truly loved the interaction that we have had with the Ethiopian people.

Our goal is to learn Amharic so that we can teach JLuke and also understand the language better so that when we come back, we can communicate…right now…it is a lot of hand motions and three words….Gobez which means brilliant or wonderful, e-shi – ok and amesegnadlu - thank you.

Hannah’s Hope, the mission team, the special mothers, the love….everything. AGCI is an awesome organization, who truly loves these people and shows it in so many ways. We are thankful for all they do, for the love that they give the children and the love they give the Ethiopian community.